You're not ready for the red dot conversation yet
I see a lot of posts asking about RMR this, SRO that, before the person asking can execute a consistent draw from concealment. That's the tell.
A red dot on a carry gun doesn't fix a bad draw. It doesn't make you faster at the presentation. It doesn't cure the flinch or the grip that creeps inward under pressure. What it does is let you see your mistakes in higher fidelity.
Your draw is inconsistent. You said it yourself. That means you have nothing a red dot will improve yet. You don't have the fundamentals to know what the optic is or isn't doing. You can't separate gear failure from operator failure because you haven't built the baseline.
Here's what earns the right to that conversation: 5,000 rounds through a quality pistol with iron sights. Not range rounds. Dry fire, draw stroke drills, presentation work, work from concealment in dry fire and live fire under fatigue. Actual seat time with the thing actually holstered the way you carry it.
Then—and only then—you have enough feedback to know whether a red dot solves a real problem or just costs money and adds complexity.
The gear industry wants you to believe equipment is progress. Forums amplify that because everyone sees the shiny. But you're not going to shoot faster than your fundamentals allow. A red dot won't make you faster at the draw. It won't make your presentation tighter.
Go earn 5,000 rounds. Come back when you can tell me your splits are consistent and your draw stroke is repeatable. Then we talk about whether the optic adds value.
Right now it's just noise.