Buy a Glock 19. The conversation is over.
Every carry gun debate ends the same way. Small hands? G19. Big hands? G19. Woman? G19. Appendix? G19. IWB? G19. Ankle carry? Still G19.
There is no body type the Glock 19 doesn't fit. There is no holster choice it doesn't work with. It runs in mud. It runs in sand. It runs after three years in a nightstand.
People tie themselves in knots comparing ergonomics and bore axis and "pointability." They debate whether they should carry a P365 or a Hellcat or a Shield or whatever else exists. They're not researching. They're procrastinating.
The Glock 19 is proven. Carried by cops. Carried by soldiers. Carried by people who actually know what works and stopped thinking about it years ago.
Buy one. Carry it. Stop talking. That's the entire conversation.