Where do I actually start if I've never owned a gun before?
I'm thinking about getting my first gun but I have no idea what the actual first step is. I've shot a friend's 9mm pistol twice at an outdoor range and I didn't hate it, but that's the extent of my experience. I live in a state with no major restrictions and I have access to a decent range nearby.
I keep reading about home defense vs. EDC vs. target shooting, and it feels like everyone assumes you already know what you want. I don't. Is there a real beginner path that doesn't involve dropping $800 and feeling lost three weeks in?
Do I take a class first? Buy a gun first? Rent and try different ones? I'm genuinely asking because the gatekeeping online makes it hard to find a straight answer.
- @counter_rat16h ago+7
Both of these are solid, but there's a bureaucratic reality that doesn't change regardless of your use case: you can't actually *buy* anything until you understand what the 4473 asks you and why NICS is going to delay you 3–5 business days minimum.
I'm not trying to be pedantic. I watch people show up with a rental receipt, ready to "take home today," and then find out they've got a name-matching flag or they answered "yes" to something they didn't understand. Suddenly that $500 gun costs you a trip back when the hold clears, or worse, a denied transfer.
So before you even call the range for rental slots: go to an FFL—could be my shop, could be yours—and ask to see a blank 4473. It's public. Read it cold. If anything on it makes you say "I'm not sure," ask the FFL to explain it. That 15-minute conversation saves you three weeks of frustration later.
Then do what gulfcoast_ops said: class, rent, buy. But understand that when you walk in with a decision, we still need 3–5 days for the background check, and that's not a problem—that's the system working. Plan for it.
Also: kept.simple's right about the safe and ammo priority. I'll add that your ammunition needs to match your actual gun once you own it. Don't rent and buy ammo yet. That's a $40 mistake that people make constantly.
- @convert.202010h ago+7
I'm going to be honest—I did almost all of this backwards and I'm still annoyed with myself about it.
I bought a gun in 2020 because, you know, pandemic brain. Didn't take a class first. Rented nothing. Just walked into a shop, said "I want something for home defense," and the guy sold me a full-size M&P that I now know doesn't fit my hands well. Three months later I finally took a class and realized I'd spent $550 on the wrong gun because I didn't know what I didn't know.
What I wish someone had told me: the class-first people aren't being precious about it. They're right. I burned money and six months of range time before I actually understood ergonomics or why my grip kept shifting. If I'd spent $150 on instruction before dropping $500, I would have rented a Shield Plus instead and saved myself frustration.
But here's the part nobody mentioned to me—and I had to learn this from counter_rat types in person—I also didn't understand the paperwork until after I bought. I got lucky and cleared NICS in three days. But I walked in assuming I'd leave with a gun same day because nobody explained the hold to me. That disconnect is stupid to have when you can just ask an FFL "what does this form actually do" beforehand.
So the thing I'd tell a first-timer now: gulfcoast_ops' path is the one. But also do what counter_rat said—go look at the 4473 cold before you're emotionally invested in a specific gun. It takes 15 minutes and saves you weeks of "why is this taking so long."
I'm still learning. But yeah, class first. It costs less regret than my approach did.
- @kept.simple1d ago+6
gulfcoast_ops nailed the class-first logic, but there's a practical detail that matters before you even call the range: figure out your actual use case first, because it changes what you're practicing.
If this is home defense—which is what most first-time buyers actually need—the class is non-negotiable, but it needs to be *home defense* specific, not just "pistol fundamentals." That means low-light, decision-making under stress, and how your home layout actually constrains your response. A lot of general pistol classes skip this entirely.
Home defense also changes your rental priorities. You're not testing whether a Glock feels nice in your hand at the range; you're testing whether you can manipulate it reliably in your actual home, which matters more. Some people discover they prefer a revolver for home defense specifically because they don't trust their manual-of-arms under actual threat stress. That's not a class-level discovery.
So: use case first, *then* class that matches it, *then* rent. The gun part is almost last.
Also—and gulfcoast_ops knows this—after you buy, your second purchase should be quality defensive ammo and a safe. A lot of first-timers reverse that priority, which is backwards.
- @gulfcoast_ops1d ago+5
Let me break this apart, because the internet argument about 'class first vs. gun first' mostly doesn't hold up in practice.
**What actually matters right now?**
You need three things before you buy anything: a clear use case, basic safety competency, and realistic expectations about cost. You've got one of those.
**Here's the straight path:**
1. Take a fundamentals class *before* you buy. Not because you can't own a gun without it—you can—but because $150 on instruction beats $500 on the wrong gun. A good 4-hour class will teach you how different platforms feel, what ergonomics actually mean for your hands, and whether you're a revolver or semi-auto person. That matters more than Reddit's opinion on caliber.
2. Rent at your range after the class. Shoot a few pistols in 9mm (since you already know that recoil). Glock, S&W M&P, maybe a CZ. Spend two hours; figure out what doesn't fight you.
3. *Then* buy something mid-range ($400–500) from what you tested. Not a budget special. Something that runs. A Glock 19, an M&P9 Shield Plus, a CZ 75 SP-01. These aren't sexy, but they work.
4. After purchase, take a second class focused on your specific use case (home defense, carry, whatever it is). This part matters *more* than the gun.
**Why this order?**
You're not gatekeeping yourself by doing this—you're filtering out the $800 mistake. Most people I see in beginner classes regret their first purchase. This path costs about $700 total and you actually *know* what you're holding.